I‘ve been thinking for awhile about doing a post for men on how to improve their relationship with women. What spurred me on was I came across an article dated July 15, 2012 at the site of the British newspaper, The Telegraph, titled IQ Tests: Women Score Higher Than Men.
It appears that over the last 100 years that IQ tests have been conducted women have been gaining in their scores and have now surpassed men. As far as I can tell the IQ score only relates to reasoning or logical ability. We have other kinds of intelligence, four in all to be exact:
- the linear logical reasoning of the left brain
- the artistic and creative intelligence of the right brain
- the love intelligence of the heart
- the access to the super consciousness through the pineal gland
For those of you who question the heart as an intelligence just check out the following description of the heart at the HeartMath Institute:
“Our research and that of others indicate that the heart is far more than a simple pump. The heart is, in fact, a highly complex, self-organized information processing center with its own functional “brain” that communicates with and influences the cranial brain via the nervous system, hormonal system and other pathways. These influences profoundly affect brain function and most of the body’s major organs, and ultimately determine the quality of life.”
Ultimately it is true that when someones says, “I know in my heart”, they really do know in their heart.
Update: See also The Heart Has Its Own “Brain” and Consciousness
Guys, it is already abundantly clear that women have more ability than us when it comes to the creative right brain and the heart. Now we know for sure they can out reason us with their logical left brains. We men are totally out classed.
Now, if the main way you relate to woman is as a place to get your rocks off, somewhere down the road you are going to experience a VERY BIG PROBLEM.
Remember, woman is a goddess. Woman is totally divine. She is so beautiful, graceful and merciful. She is a giver and a nurturer. She is THE MOTHER herself.
A woman’s heart is sacred and you are there to protect her. When you relate to any woman think of her as either your grandmother, your mother, your sister, your daughter or your lover.
Because she is more naturally connected to her heart than you, in a way you could say she is a superior creation than you. In short, she is your teacher.
From her you can learn to get out of living life through the perception of your puny logic and your puny testicles. Only then you can start to experience life from the magnificence of your heart.
If you are not willing to learn this lesson you will then begin to experience “the bitch”. Now, if your woman is being bitchy I have a little advice for you. Don’t do the standard knee jerk reaction and dismiss her bitchiness as hormones. She just might have something really important to say to you. Honour her and listen to her from your heart. Tune in very carefully to what she is saying.
It is true she just might be coming from a place of insecurity or fear and that is OK because you and I have both been there too.
Just remember three things: be steady, love her and take care of her.
May there be peace in our hearts.
May there be peace for all humanity.
May there be perfect peace on earth.
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